Here is one question that I used to ask myself when I realized that sports wasn’t exactly my thing. What am I supposed to do with my time if I’m not going to play sports? Playing sports gives you the chance to interact with many different types of people and you get the chance to form lifelong friendships. However, there are definitely alternatives for those of you that know that sports just aren’t your thing.
For me, I turned to theatre. Obviously, different things appeal to different people. This was something that I started up in the third grade because many of my friends were taking drama class at my school. So I would also have the chance to interact and spend more time with my friends, I also took the class. Theatre soon became something of a passion to me and so I started taking part in productions in my community. Doing this allowed me to meet friends from all over my community that didn’t attend my school. Out of that experience, I ended up making friends that I still have today.
Sometimes, these types of activities can seem a lot like high school, you have your own little cliques that consist of those that are the stars and those that aren’t the stars. However, it surprised me that there are many people, especially in theatre (I can’t speak on behalf of other activities since I never took part in them) that don’t care about how great they are, they just hangout with everyone regardless of what part you’re playing. I’ve learned to love those moments that happened in theatre because it gave you that indescribable feeling that you truly belonged.
My point is, everyone has a place where they belong. For some of us, we are comfortable while playing sports. For the nonathletic types like myself, we have to find a different place, which isn’t too hard to discover. Sometimes you just have to look around for a little bit until you find it.